Sunday, December 31, 2023

Rescue Me, Maybe (Jackie Bouchard)

Why I have this book: I got it for maybe .99 ten years ago on Kindle. I'm trying to read some of those older books I have in my quest to get my to-be-read book count lowered!

I really liked this book. I saw some reviewers thought the main character was "unlikable" because she tended to be standoffish and negative, but I liked her. Maybe I relate to her too much. Haha. To me, she just carried a lot of baggage and had been through quite a few really hard things, and she was probably in protection mode. 

In any case, I gave the book four stars on Goodreads, and I also bought another book by the author. I like that pups play a part in her stories (at least this one and the new one I purchased).

Oh, and there's a newer version of this book. The author said it's about 97% the same, but a new publisher wanted her to change a few things. Kinda interesting. I will say the version I read could have been cleaned up just a bit in the punctuation department.

This was my last read of 2023. Just something to note for no particular reason. 

Clean. I don't recall any swearing, so if there was any, it wasn't a big part of the writing. There's some attraction and a thought about a possible future sharing of a bed, but nothing else sexual. 

Thursday, December 28, 2023

A Heart Like His (Virginia H. Pearce)

Why I have this book: I had the print edition for years, but bought the Kindle edition at some point, too.

Still trying to clean some of the shorter books off my "to be read" Kindle books, so I picked this one today.

I really loved this book back in the day. I still like it now, even though some of the religious stuff reminded me of how stressful it was to always try to get things "right" and do and be enough. Still, I love and agree with the author that it's so important to learn to open our hearts instead of closing them up to protect ourselves or our feelings. I think for some, God is the motivation or the power behind being able to do that, and maybe for others, it's humanity or light or a positive energy. 

I liked this thought:

"... when you honestly open your heart up to someone, it is a gift. And if they don't take the gift, it's still okay... because [it] feels so good."

I liked that the author (who happens to be Gordon and Marjorie Hinkley's daughter) and her friends who worked on this process were honest about their struggles with it and about how often they lived with hardened or closed off walls. They made a real deliberate effort to be more open. I think it does take effort for most of us.

Even though my religious beliefs are different now, I'm glad I read this again. I skimmed some of the more religious parts, but the ideas aren't necessarily religious in nature. I think they have more to do with being human and being part of humanity, no matter one's spiritual beliefs.

Clean.

Wednesday, December 27, 2023

Within: Making Peace with Food and Body Image to Create a Healthy Family and Home (Karen Diaz)

Why I have this book: I must have thought it felt inspiring since I bought the Kindle edition.

I gave it two stars on Goodreads. It had some good advice (not necessarily anything new), but felt a little drawn out, and it didn't keep my interest really well.

Clean.

Tuesday, December 26, 2023

Dark Horse (John Fischer)

Why I have this book: I got the Kindle version for free years ago. Again, it's short, so I moved it up to help get some books off my extensive "to be read" list on my Kindle.

I gave this book one star on Goodreads. I wouldn't have finished it if it hadn't been so short. 

It's an allegory, and I don't really love allegories. This one didn't make much much sense to me, to be honest. I think it wasn't supposed to be about Christ ("The White One?") Maybe? The author is/was a pastor, so that's what I'm guessing. 

Super boring, pretty confusing, and all over the place. 

Clean.

A Horse for Kate (Miralee Ferrell)

Why I have this book: I probably bought the ebook for my daughter back when she was into horses (like all girls go through).

I'm trying to knock some of the books off my Kindle, so I moved this one up the list since it's short and written for kids. I enjoyed it well enough considering that it was written for a young crowd. I gave it three stars on Goodreads.

My only complaint was the random moments where prayer or "God answered her prayers" came into the story. It didn't seem like a religious story, so it felt a little out of place, plus it creates this idea that God will answer your prayer if you're praying for a horse or other desire. The reality is that we don't always get what we want, praying or not.

Clean.

It Will All Work Out: The Freedom of Letting Go (Kevin Hart)

Why I have this book: It was an Amazon First Reads (free) book. I'm not a big fan of Kevin Hart and his filthy mouth, but I decided to give him a chance.

This is a very short book (44 pages), and it really seemed more like an excerpt than a real "short story." (It's not a story, more of a self-help genre.) One reviewer on Amazon said it IS an excerpt of something the author did/wrote/performed. I'm not sure. It shouldn't be promoted as a book, though, even a "short" book.

I gave it one star on Goodreads. It wasn't that interesting, it wasn't funny, the advice wasn't that profound. I'm just glad I didn't pay for it. (I wouldn't have even paid .99 for it, to be honest.)

Lots of profanity (although maybe it was toned down for him). He mentioned sex once or twice, but not in any kind of descriptive way.

Saturday, December 23, 2023

Dare: The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks Fast (Barry McDonagh)

Why I have this book: I saw it recommended quite a few times, so I bought it. I somehow ended up with both the audio and ebook versions.

I did get through the book by listening to the audio version. I only referenced the ebook version when I wanted to make a note of something he said.

I gave it three stars on Goodreads. I think the advice was good, but it felt a little more drawn out than it needed to be. It wasn't even that long of a book to begin with (print length is 244 pages), but it could have been a 1/3 fewer pages, in my opinion. 

Clean. I don't recall anything offensive.

Friday, December 22, 2023

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life (Mark Manson)

Why I have this book: My daughter-in-law recommended it, so I bought the audio version.

I wish I would have borrowed it instead. I actually probably wouldn't have listened past the first few chapters if I had borrowed instead of purchased.

I mean, I guess the warning from my DiL about the F-words and the title should have been a clue, but I've watched Ted Lasso, so I thought I was prepared for the F-word. The usage did slow down after the first part, but sheesh. A little extreme and so unnecessary.

The book itself had some good advice and philosophies, but it also seemed to go on too long. I sped up the book twice just to get through it faster. I found my mind wandering more than once. I was glad when it ended.

The author seems full of himself at times, and then he says something to make you think he does have some humility and humanity.

Overall, it was a two-star book for me.

Lots and lots and lots of swearing. Mentions of casual sex (not descriptive). Death is discussed.

Wednesday, December 20, 2023

Book Lovers (Emily Henry)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it even after I told her I didn't like the other one I read by this author not that long ago. She discovered this was published after the other one, so maybe her style has become more refined? I decided to try it because everyone seems to love these books.

Sadly, I gave this one two stars on Goodreads just like the other one.

Here's the deal: Too much swearing. Even though I feel like I've loosened up with my tolerance of the F-word, I don't need to hear it all the time. I don't love that for some people, it's just another word in casual conversation. I don't relate to that. I also think it would be super annoying to have someone saying it during... ahem... sex. Again, just as an exclamation of emotion. It's just crass. Blech.

And... I don't want to read detailed sexual encounters, especially these frenzied ones this author seems to enjoy describing. 

The story itself was cute, although I never believe in love that happens so quickly. Lust, infatuation... sure. But real love? No.

I also noted that pressing one's leg against the other person's leg (like under a table) was a theme in both books. It feels like she has her "things" that just are going to be part of the story?

Interesting that both books I read by this author involved the book writing/publishing process. I'm curious if all her books are like that, but not curious enough to read any more of them.

After this one, I deleted two other "rom-com" books I had on loan from the library. I need a break from rom-com books.

Lots of swearing, lots of uses of the F-word, several descriptive sex scenes.

Sunday, December 17, 2023

The Code. The Evaluation. The Protocols: Striving to Become an Eminently Qualified Human (Jocko Willink)

Why I have this book: I think my son recommended it? 

This book is surprisingly short... only about 70 pages. There aren't a typical number of words on each page, so it went fast (30 minutes on average, according to my Kindle).

I gave it three stars on Goodreads. Some parts were super inspiring, and other parts gave me anxiety because they reminded me of my religious years when I was always trying (and failing) to do everything "right." Some parts made me think we're supposed to be robots and just be laser-focused on goals. Being that driven doesn't seem like the healthiest way to live or relate to others. I definitely will use the inspiring parts.

Clean.

Saturday, December 16, 2023

Endgame: Inside the Royal Family and the Monarchy's Fight for Survival (Omid Scobie)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library.

I'm glad I listened to this book because it helped to make sense of things I've seen online over the past decade or so. Even though this author also wrote Finding Freedom (which I felt was very biased toward Meghan), I think he was a bit more objective and fair in this one. Maybe still a bit biased toward Meghan, but not as blatantly as in his other book. I obviously am just going by what I've heard/read from different sources to help me decide what is true and what isn't, though.

I was surprised to learn the author is in his 40's and that he has a better resume than I had assumed. As the narrator of the audio version, he sounds educated and like a reliable source of information. Again, though, I can't be sure since I know nothing for certain. Haha.

In any case, I enjoyed the listen, and mostly it reminds me that families are complicated. Being in the royal family of Great Britain just makes those complications more complicated AND more visible to everyone. I don't envy them at all.

I gave it four stars on Goodreads.

Clean. I don't recall any swearing or anything, but like the last book I reviewed, it's been a few days, and I might not remember. 

Thursday, December 14, 2023

Two Women Walk into a Bar (Cheryl Strayed)

Why I have this book: It was a freebie on Amazon First Reads.

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. It was a touching record of the last weeks of the author's mother-in-law's life. It brings to the forefront how our lives are intertwined and how we create relationships over time. 

As a short story (not really a "story" since it's true), it was a quick read, but it had a big impact.

Clean. I don't recall any swearing or anything, but it's been a few days since I actually read it, so I can't be sure.

Wednesday, December 6, 2023

Beach Read (Emily Henry)

Why I have this book: A friend read it and must have given it a high rating because I borrowed it from the ebook library on audio.

Sadly, I gave it only two stars on Goodreads. I thought I'd give it a higher rating at first, but by the end, I wasn't as thrilled.

The narrator did a great job. Some parts of the story were cute and fun, lots of humorous bantor, etc. I guess this is a "rom-com" type of book. Here were the things I didn't like:

The male love interest was way too in touch with his feelings. He spoke like a romantic girl, not a typical man. I can't imagine, in all honesty, any man or woman speaking the way either of them did. Definitely sounded like a movie script and not real life.

The sex scenes were more descriptive than I needed to read (listen to), and they also seemed a bit unrealistic. Too fast and furious and in uncomfortable places. It also kind of annoyed me that both times "protection" was brought up, it was her asking for it. Why can't the guy just be responsible and take care of it without her asking him about it? So dumb.

There was another male character who did some written communication that also sounded a bit too flowery and in touch with his feelings than a typical man. Maybe I'm just not around those type of men or maybe I'm just jaded, but I actually rolled my eyes a few times.

All in all... meh.

There were the above-mentioned sex scenes. There was some profanity, including the F-word. Part of the storyline involved researching a suicide cult, but none of that was graphically described.


Tuesday, November 28, 2023

10 Blind Dates (Ashley Elston)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it to me, so I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library.

I thought it was okay. It was cute (like my friend said), but also an unlikely scenario within the family of the protagonist. The romantic relationships seemed a bit grown up considering the characters were still in high school. If I didn't know that, I'd have thought it made more sense for college-aged students than for kids still in high school.

I gave it two stars on Goodreads.

I don't recall any swearing (but could be wrong). I do know they used God's name as an exclamation of emotion. There is one scene that alludes to a porn movie and a related "toy" shop, but nothing is described in depth and it's handled as an inappropriate situation.

Saturday, November 25, 2023

Wish (Barbara O'Connor)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the Kindle version from the ebook library because my daughter said she loved it. She's read it three times! (We have the paperback edition, but I like reading on my Kindle, so I was glad the library had it available.)

I really loved this book. I even gave it five stars on Goodreads because four didn't seem like quite enough. It's a sweet and touching story that makes you want to hug your dog and do the things that make your home filled with love.

Clean.

Friday, November 24, 2023

The Happiest Refugee (Ahn Do)

Why I have this book: I don't remember at all why this book ended up on my wish list on Amazon, but I eventually bought it. It wasn't cheap, either, so...

I gave it four stars on Goodreads. In actuality, my rating was somewhere between a three and a four, but his story is interesting, and I'm grateful it reminded me to think about the lives of hard-working immigrants. So many who immigrate to various countries around the world (his family immigrated from Vietnam to Australia through both illegal and legal processes... illegally leaving, legally being assigned a country) sacrifice a lot and work very hard to give their children a better life. He recognizes that and appreciates what his parents did for him.

He's apparently quite a big star in Australia, but I haven't seen anything he's done. I might look him up online and watch some of his work. 

I'm glad I read it. I'm not sure I would pay as much as I did, though. It's probably a $7 book instead of the sixteen dollars I paid.

Clean. I don't remember any swearing or anything offensive at all, but I did read it over the course of several weeks, so I might be forgetting something.

Saturday, November 18, 2023

Two books in the "Sweet Magnolias" series (Sherryl Woods)

Stealing Home

A Slice of Heaven

Why I have these books: Because I hadn't learned my lesson and bought ALL the (Kindle) books in the series when there was a special. I was interested because I watched the first two seasons of Sweet Magnolias on Netflix, and it seemed like the books might be nice to read.

*To be accurate, these two came in a "boxed" set, but I entered them separately on Goodreads so I'd get credit for two instead of one large book (as it is with the Kindle edition I bought). Gotta get my book count! haha

I gave them both 2 stars on Goodreads. Oh, my gosh. The first one had a scene in it that would not fly at all these days. I just checked, and I'm surprised to see it was originally published in 2007. I can't imagine the scene in question would have been okay then, either. (A man takes a woman's hand and puts it on his crotch to prove he is, indeed, attracted to her.) So gross and inappropriate, and dare I say, even sexual harrassment/assault.

I think if I hadn't seen the show, I wouldn't really have much connection to the characters. The character development isn't there. The story depth isn't there. I'm actually really surprised someone was able to see the potential in the story for a tv series. This is one time I can honestly say the show is better than the books.

As I mentioned, I bought the whole series on a whim. Dumb! I'm sure I'll still read them, but I've got a couple others to get to first.

I don't recall any swearing, but if there is, it's mild and infrequent. There is the one stupid scene mentioned above in the first book. The second book has a moderately described sex scene. A fair amount of "hot and bothered" going on in both books.

Friday, October 27, 2023

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (JK Rowling)

Why I have this book: Same as the previous Harry Potter review... we have both the print and audio versions. I listened to the audio version (narrated by Jim Dale) this time.

Another five star rating from me. I just am amazed at the author's brain, and I was super engrossed and entertained by her imagination and writing skills.

Interestingly, there was one part where Dumbledore referred to Voldemort as an "ancestor" of another character. That didn't seem right (based on the time line), so I went back and listened to that part again to see if I misunderstood. Then I looked it up online to make sense of it, and turns out that the author used the wrong word (ancestor vs descendent) which was later corrected in the book. I'm not sure why it wasn't corrected in the audio version since it shouldn't be difficult to do that in a digital product. What's strange to me is that nobody caught that in editing or performing the narration or whatever other processes the book goes through before publishing. Honestly, though, it feels like these books are pretty close to perfect in all the ways that matter... hence my five-star rating.

I don't recall any swearing. There's obviously a scary component to these stories, but so far the series doesn't feel too dark or gory. This book might have even seemed less so than the first book.

Wednesday, October 25, 2023

Counting the Cost (Jill Duggar)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library.

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. I liked it better than the book by her sister (which I read earlier this year) for a few reasons:

1) It wasn't religiously preachy like her sister's book. She obviously is still a faithful Christian, but she wasn't using this book as a tool to preach her version of Christianity to the readers.

2) I feel like she was more open and honest about her family. She shared both the good things and the hard things. That took a lot of courage, especially in regards to her father and how he managed their family/business/money. She also was brave in sharing where she saw her own shortcomings.

3) She didn't shy away from taking a stand about her brother and his issues.

All narrators are reading their material, but her narration definitely sounded like it. I don't know that I'd be able to do any better, though, so I give her a pass on that. I'm sure it was scary to put her story out there, and she has a lot of emotional risk and investment in this, so maybe her nerves came into play. She still kept my interest, and I'm glad I listened to her story.

For the record, I never watched the Duggar's show. Maybe I watched one or two episodes, but maybe I'm just remembering clips I saw online or something. My interest stems mostly from learning about how some of the adult children have deconstructed the faith of their upbringing and how they made sense of it.

Clean. There is some basic info about the sexual behavior and criminal activity of her brother.

Friday, October 20, 2023

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (JK Rowling)

Why I have this book: I actually listened to the audio version this time. I love that Jim Dale narrated it (loved him in the old Pete's Dragon), although I hear there's another narrator that also did a great job.

In any case, I have all of the books in the series in Audible, so I decided to give them a listen. I had read through the fourth book before, and that one was a bit on the dark side for my sensibilities, so I never read any further. I think I watched the first three movies, too.

BUT... I'm determined to listen to all of them and to watch all the movies now, so here I go! I gave this first one five stars on Goodreads. I think JK Rowling has the most amazing brain to set up all these paths that will come to fruition in the future books. She's an excellent writer with an unbelievably creative mind.

Clean. I don't recall any swearing in this one, but if there was, it was mild. I know the story gets scarier as it goes on, but this one wasn't so bad.

Thursday, October 19, 2023

The Lonely Polygamist (Brady Udall)

Why I have this book: My husband's cousin recommended it to me, so I bought the Kindle edition.

This was a tough one to rate. I thought the writing was actually very good. I had a hard time at first getting into the story, but I was more invested as it went along.

I honestly might have given it four stars because I found it easy to get to know the main characters and put myself in their shoes. I thought the part about the nuclear testing that happened in Nevada (and how it affected the residents of southern Utah) was super fascinating, especially the way he described it. A lot of the characters were quirky, and that was fun, as well.

Here's the problem (for me): There was way too much focus on sex. I'm not talking about descriptive sexual scenes. It was more that some of the characters were so focused on it... too many aroused men and boys, and there was too much talk about what was going on in their nether-regions. There was a particularly disturbing scene toward the end involving a young boy in the hospital and one of his "mothers" (one of the sister-wives). It was just weird and yuck. So... yeah. All of that made it so I won't really recommend the book to anyone, which is really too bad. It could have been so much better without all of that unnecessary stuff.

This book had the sexual focus as I just mentioned. There was also swearing, including the F-word once or twice, if I'm remembering correctly.

Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Everything Isn't Terrible: Conquer Your Insecurities, Interrupt Your Anxiety, and Finally Calm Down (Kathleen Smith)

Why I have this book: It was recommended somewhere online a few times, so I bought the audio version.

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. I thought the author had a lot of good advice (mostly based on the idea of differentiation) for several different life situations (family, jobs, leaderships, etc.) The narrator of the audio version did a great job, as well.

Clean. I don't remember any swearing or anything, but I may be forgetting.

Monday, October 9, 2023

Worthy: A Memoir (Kerry Turner)

Why I have this book: I think Amazon recommended it to me? It sounded good, so I bought the Kindle edition.

Well, I gave it two stars on Goodreads. It had potential, but the writing wasn't super engrossing, and it badly needed an editor. It felt more like an outline of what happened, not a memoir with depth. I felt like I was being told what happened, but I didn't really feel it.

There were a few exceptions:

"My entire life I had been moving about the world as if I had no worth. As if my presence did not add value to people's lives." 

(I relate to that feeling.)

"I learned events are inherently neutral. They are just occasions that happen in a moment in time. Thinking is what changes them. We are the ones that assign the meaning of good or bad, right or wrong, negative or positive, life-sucking or life-enhancing, to the happenings in our lives." 

(I've heard this from other life coaches before, and I agree this is true with the majority of things that happen in our lives. However, I don't think we should just choose the way we see every single event in our lives in order to stay positive. Sometimes I think that idea is harmful. If someone has been through a tragedy or heavy sorrow or damaging relationship, trying to "think" our way out of the pain by telling ourselves to just see it a different way might not be the best or healthiest action, and might create a fake sense of coping instead of really going through the process of healing. Know what I mean?)

"When we deny our stories, they define us. When we own our stories, we get to write a brave new ending." (The author was quoting Brenè Brown here.)

Anyway, her life events definitely were compelling, and I'm glad she's found healing. She didn't really share how deciding to accept and embrace her own worth actually happened. It sounded like she recognized that she never felt worthy, decided that she was worthy, and then told herself that over and over until she believed it? I don't know.

The book deals with death (including suicide), drug use, rape, childhood trauma, etc. There are some swear words, including the F-word, if I'm remembering correctly.

Saturday, October 7, 2023

Wherever the Wind Takes Us (Kelly Harms)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it, and because it was so inexpensive, I bought both the Kindle and audio versions.

I liked reading the book more than listening to it. The narrator wasn't exceptional on the audio version. Maybe I would have given it a solid four stars if I had just read the whole thing instead of listening to a chunk of it, but I settled on three stars. If I had the option, I would have given it 3.5, probably.

There was one quote toward the end that struck me: "I close my eyes and let tears of relief leak out the cracks of my eyelids. It feels so, so good. I haven't cried myself to sleep in a very long time. I haven't let myself feel things this deeply for years. At some point, some years ago, all the shock, and sorrow, and pain gave way to a kind of numbness. It was a numbness that protected me. Let me stay in a bad situation for far too long, put far too much of my emotional energy on my own daughter. Made me believe my own life had come and gone... And now, the haze is clearing. My energy is restored. I've woken up to my senses, my desires, my capabilities."

I did enjoy it. I have a couple other books by this author (and I've already read a couple, as well) in my Kindle, and I look forward to reading them.

There is what is now common language in books... including the F-word. There is unmarried sex (mildly descriptive), talk about affairs that occurred, etc. Just your average modern-day book/life in America.

Wednesday, September 27, 2023

The Scenic Route (Christina Baker Kline)

Why I have this book: It was one of the Amazon First Reads in the last couple of months. I actually paid for this one ($1.99) because I got another one for free, but then they made it a Prime Reading option, and they refunded me the purchase price. That was nice of Amazon. I would have never known that it was a Prime Reading option if they didn't tell me.

Anyway, I wasn't sure how many stars to give this. Other reviewers gave it 4+ stars (the overall rating both Amazon and Goodreads show), but I'm not sure why. It's a short story, and while the writing was good, there just wasn't enough story to sink my teeth into. I think it would have made a compelling full-size novel, though. 

I ended up giving it three stars.

Mostly clean. There is one F-word that I remember. An affair has occurred in the past. Alcoholism is part of the story, and having been molested as a child is briefly mentioned.

Sunday, September 24, 2023

Reminders of Him (Colleen Hoover)

Why I have this book: My daughter-in-law recommended the author (and I also saw lots of people online recommend her), so I bought this one first because it was $2.99. I actually ended up buying and reading the two most recommended books of hers before I got to this one, though. I reviewed them earlier this year.

I gave this one just two stars on Goodreads. It was fine. It was okay. A little corny and not really believable in the way the characters act. It is bizarre to me how a couple is having sex all the time, but they don't know each other well enough to talk about it they are going to get married or even if they love each other. It's like sex is what kissing used to be.

Anyway, whatevs. It was fine. I doubt I'd ever read another of the author's books, though. They just aren't the kind of books I love.

Lots and lots of F-words, several sex scenes that are fairly descriptive (but not crass). Deals with death.

Saturday, September 23, 2023

The Deep End of the Ocean (Jacquelyn Mitchard)

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from the ebook library after seeing a clip of the movie pop up on FB or something.

I gave it a three on Goodreads. I seriously have had it checked out for almost the entire three weeks. I guess it didn't keep my interest enough to want to pick it up whenever I had the chance.

It was interesting, though, to think about the things that happen in a family when a tragedy occurs. There are so many layers in relationships and emotions, and we don't always imagine how that all come into play when we see stories on the news.

I think there were some F-bombs and definitely some other swearing. There were two or three very mildly described sexual encounters.

Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself (Nedra Glover Tawwab)

Why I have this book: Because I need a lot of help on setting boundaries! I bought the audio version and Kindle version both, but ended up just listening to the audio for the whole book.

There were a few new thoughts in this book, but probably most books on boundaries are going to be similar. I almost gave it three stars on Goodreads since it's not the first book about the topic that I've read, but I gave it four stars because if it were the only book someone might read, it does cover the bases really well.

I think it was clean. I don't recall any swearing or anything, but I had three books going at once, so I could be wrong!

Saturday, September 16, 2023

Untamed (Glennon Doyle)

Why I have this book: It was recommended more than a few times online, and my SiL also read it and thought parts of it would resonate with me.

It's true... some parts did resonate with me. I felt like some parts of the book were a high four stars and other parts were around two stars for me, so I averaged it out and gave it three stars Goodreads.

I liked a lot of her ideas, but the delivery (on audio) sounded a little too "profound" when it maybe wasn't quite as profound as it was meant to be. I don't know... the delivery was just not my style, I guess.

Still, there was a lot of good stuff in there, so I can see why people recommend it.

I'm sure there were some swear words. I can't remember if there were any F-words (I listened to it over a week ago). There are some mild descriptions of the physical relationship the author has with her wife. Nothing too graphic.

Monday, August 21, 2023

True Sisters (Sandra Dallas)

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from the ebook library as an audio version.

I actually had thought about reading this book years ago, but decided not to after seeing some reviews saying it wasn't a fair depiction of polygamy or Mormon women. With my new perspective, I decided to go ahead and read it.

It was interesting to find out that Sandra Dallas lived in Utah for a few years as Presbyterian teenager. Kinda cool that she decided to write a book about Mormon pioneers. She did a ton of research, including reading diaries and speaking with LDS historians, as well as visiting historical spots along the trail. 

I thought she was fair to both the faith of the pioneers and the subject of polygamy and how it affected both men and women. I doubt the struggles of the Martin and Willie Handcart Companies were as faith-promoting as the Church likes to paint it, and I'm very certain polygamy wasn't as rosy as they'd like us to think. Sandra did a great job balancing those things and didn't push one viewpoint or the other.

This is a fiction book, so the characters aren't real. The last few paragraphs of the epilogue don't describe the way it really went down for most polygamists, I don't think, but I loved the very last line. Just that line bumped the book from three stars to four for me. *insert fist bump*

I gave it four stars on Goodreads.

Clean. There is some implication of married "relations," and there are some descriptions of death and physical injuries and hardships the pioneers experienced on the trail.

Thursday, August 17, 2023

The Secrets of Midwives (Sally Hepworth)

Why I have this book: I bought the Kindle edition at one point, then borrowed the audio version. I actually ended up returning the audio version because it wasn't great... the narrator seemed to give them all accents, and that made it confusing since it was set in Rhode Island.

I probably would have gone with about 3.5 stars if that had been an option, but since you can only give whole stars, I rounded up to four. I did really like it, even though I'm not sure every bit was super realistic. There were also a couple of small editing issues, including that it had a more British/Australian feel than American. There was also a sex scene that had more description than was needed, and it didn't seem to fit in with the rest of the storytelling.

In any case, I did like it.

There was a bit of swearing, including one F-word that I remember. One somewhat descriptive sex scene. One pretty sad death and the implication of pre- and extra-marital sexual encounters, as well as domestic violence are all part of the storyline.

Thursday, August 3, 2023

The Mother's Promise (Sally Hepworth)

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from the ebook library as an audiobook because I like the author.

This book was probably a 3.7 for me, but since we only get the option of whole numbers on Goodreads, I rounded up to four stars. I don't remember if I had read the description of the book before I borrowed it, but I was pretty surprised to discover that it was nothing like the other books of Sally's that I've read. Usually her books seem to have some suspense to them, but this one was more about family, friends, and relationships. It also dealt with mental and physical health challenges

I listened to it in one day, so it obviously kept my interest. It gave me some things to think about, too, in regards to challenging our weaknesses and fears, as well as the importance of relationships.

There was some swearing, including the F-word. The story involves rape, domestic violence, and dying. None of it is graphically described.

Wednesday, August 2, 2023

It Starts with Us (Colleen Hoover)

Why I have this book: It's the sequel to the book I read just previously.

I gave this one three stars on Goodreads, just like I did with the first book in the series. It was good. I enjoyed it. The love interest was probably too good to be true, just like a lot of the male leads in romance novels.

There was some profanity, including the F-word. Domestic violence was still an issue, though not as intense or graphic as in the first novel. There were also a few sex scenes, moderately descriptive.

Sunday, July 30, 2023

It Ends with Us (Colleen Hoover)

Why I have this book: It's been recommended a ton online, and then my daughter-in-law recommended it, as well, so I bought both it and the sequel on Kindle. (The ebook library wait time was very, very long.)

I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. I did like it a lot as far as the characters and writing goes. I could have done without all the F-words and at least one weird sex scene. As popular (bestseller) as this book is, I'm surprised that there were editing mistakes. (This is why I should be paid to read books before they are published. Seriously, I missed my calling in life.)

Financially, everyone seemed to have the Midas touch. They were all super successful without the readers seeing any of the work or failures. Businesses took off easily. Dreams came true. Even though the topic was on the heavier side, the book read more like a "beach read" because everyone just seemed to have these smooth, successful, perfect financial lives happening in the background. That part wasn't realistic to me.

Otherwise, the story is compelling (about domestic abuse and how complicated it can be), and it's one of the first non-audio books I've read in a while that had me choosing the book over doing other things. With audiobooks, you don't have to make a choice; you can just do your work and read (listen) at the same time. With print or Kindle editions, you have to choose, you know? I chose to read the last two days. I even chose to read instead of sleep last night, and stayed up until 1:30 hoping to finish the book to see what would happen. (I couldn't quite make it, so I finished the last little bit today.)

In the author's notes, she said the characters and their relationship were based on her parents, and she honestly tells the story of abuse in her family of origin. 

I'm looking forward to starting the sequel right away. 

The F-word is used liberally along with other swear words. There are a handful of sex scenes, and most are not overly graphic. There is one that is more graphic than the others. Domestic violence and attempted rape are part of the story. There is a description of a gunshot wound that is somewhat disturbing.


Wednesday, July 26, 2023

RE: Trailer Trash (FortySixtyFour)

Why I have this book: My brother was talking about it and seemed to like it, so I bought it on Kindle. It was like $4.99, so I figured I'd give it a try.

Sooooooo... I gave this book two stars on Goodreads. It took me a long time to get through it because I kept having library books come up for me, and I didn't actually miss it when I wasn't reading it. It was pretty interesting, but I kept thinking we'd get to the "climax" of the story, and I'm not sure we ever did. The book is 600+ pages, and ends very abruptly with absolutely no resolution. It's like the end of a chapter, not the end of a book. The author, I understand, continues the story in installments on some kind of indie app. I haven't looked into it.

If the author publishes a sequel (or continuation, as the case is), I'd probably buy it to figure out what eventually happens. The premise of the story (time travel/do over) is compelling, so I wouldn't mind knowing how things play out. I do think the entire story could have been told in one 600 (or less) page book, though.

Also, I have no idea about the author's pen name. My brother said it's a male author (he's seen some of his other work on that app), but I don't know why he doesn't use his real name or a pen name that actually sounds like a real name or... ? I even googled it to see if there was any info about it, but I didn't find anything.

There's a ton of profanity (including the F-word). I don't recall anything sexual happening. There's sort of a nastiness in attitudes and in the way some characters treat others. Just scuzzy personalities, really. (There's also kindness and acceptance by others in some of those situations.)


Monday, July 24, 2023

Westering Women (Sandra Dallas)

Why I have this book: I bought the Kindle edition with a gift card from Christmas. I'm not sure why I picked it... I have liked other books by this author, but I don't know if someone recommended it or what. I also borrowed the audio version from the ebook library.

I only gave this one two stars on Goodreads. Ugh. So much awful stuff that was completely unneeded for the point of the story. Child rape (incest), gang rape, so many abusive husbands/partners. The author even said in her "Acknowledgements" that nearly all the men in the story are bad guys. Her response was, "So?"

The character development wasn't great, the sorrow at loss was shallow, the writing wasn't very engaging. It's one of the author's more recent books, but it felt like a debut novel because it lacked depth. Pretty disappointing. 

Just looking back on my Goodreads list, I can see I gave other books of hers mixed reviews... two stars up to four stars over the eight books I've read since I started keeping track. I guess I didn't like all her books as much as I was thinking I did.

There was probably some swearing in this book, but of the more mild variety. As I mentioned, abuse, rape, child rape, gang rape... none of it is descriptive, but it's a lot and paints a negative picture of how the majority of men behave. There are some deaths due to the dangers of pioneer travel.

Friday, July 21, 2023

The Star That Always Stays (Anna Rose Johnson)

Why I have this book: A friend recommended it, so I bought the Kindle version for super cheap, and I also managed to borrow the audio version.

I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. I really enjoyed it quite a bit, but toward the end, it became religious fiction. The change didn't seem to fit the story, and the sudden interest and faith some of the characters developed didn't seem realistic. It felt kind of surface and almost like an afterthought. I don't mind religious fiction. It just didn't seem to fit in with the rest of the story.

Other than that, the story was sweet and uplifting, and I liked the reference to the books/heroines the protagonist kept turning toward for examples of how she wanted to live.

Clean.

Sunday, July 16, 2023

The Warsaw Orphan (Kelly Rimmer)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library after a friend recommended it. I also have read other books by the author which I've enjoyed.

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. It's definitely a hard topic in that it deals with the Holocaust and the treatment of Jews in Poland during WWII. I've read lots of books about WWII, and I always appreciate when I am able to learn more about what happened that I hadn't known before. I did know that there were those who smuggled Jewish babies and children out of the Jewish communities, but I didn't know about the Jewish uprising or about how the Nazis took Jewish children from their families and from orphanages  to ship them away (presumably to kill them). It's absolutely horrific. There really are no words.

The audio book itself was fine. The female narrator did a better job than the male narrator, in my opinion. I was confused why some characters had accents and others didn't considering they all lived in Poland.

Clean as far as swearing (I don't recall any) and sexual situations. There is one rape that occurs, but it's not graphically described. There is wartime violence in this story, and even though it's not super graphic, just the knowledge of what was happening is disturbing if one has any kind of humanity.

Friday, July 7, 2023

Eleanor and Park (Rainbow Rowell)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it, so I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library.

Okay.... hmmm. I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. I waffled between three and four stars, and I wish I could have gone with 3.5'ish.

Why it could be closer to three stars than four:

Too much profanity, particularly the F-word.

Some really disgusting written words/phrases left on Eleanor's text books, and the disturbing conclusion about that.

I don't think many (if any) teenagers speak the way the protagonists do.

Who stole her clothes??? 

The love story seemed unlikely, and their behavior on the bus seemed unrealistic considering there was no response from the other kids on the bus given their tendency to be bullies.

Why it could be closer to four stars than three:

The friendship/relationship between Eleanor and Park is sweet.

The story kept me pretty engrossed. It became more intense as it went on.

Also, that is the author's real name.

One tricky thing was that I read another book (With a Shadow of Doubt - reviewed just previously) while also listening to this one. It got a little confusing when I came back to Eleanor and Park because the main male character in the other book is half-Asian like Park is, and I had to sort through my brain to remember what came from the other book and what was part of this one. That's the problem with having more than one book going at a time!

Lots of profanity, some implied/mildly descriptive teenage sexual activity (although not "all the way"), some creepy comments/innuendo, domestic abuse.


Tuesday, July 4, 2023

With a Shadow of Doubt (Jess Alexander)

Why I have this book: I bought the Kindle version after seeing the author talk about it in a FB group I'm in.

I think this book did a great job representing how some LDS men act, how LDS culture can be, how entrenched members of the LDS Church are in their religion, and how that entrenchment influences behavior and emotions.

But this book desperately needs an editor. Some things are flat out errors (Tad Callister isn't a member of the Twelve Apostles, for example, and saying the name "Kimble" is a big name in Mormonism when it's "Kimball" the authors seem to be referencing). There are multiple grammar and punctuation errors, as well.

The descriptive sex scenes seemed out of place and I honestly think the book would have been better leaving it to the readers' imaginations. I'm also a bit confused how young marriage was frowned upon, but a relationship that started just as young between the main romantic characters is okay when the assumption is that eventually they will get married. And let's face it... the male romantic interest is probably a little too perfect.

I also didn't like how the main character went from Molly Mormon to doing things like drinking (underage) and swearing like a sailor. I do think that some of those who leave orthodox religions take that path (along with other behaviors) as part of their deconstruction. I also think it's not necessary, but I recognize that some fault has to fall at the feet of the religions that create so much shame and control. For some, there's a time of "rebelliousness" in trying to reclaim their sense of self. Others might do things that "normal" people do that isn't seen as rebellious except within the religious community. It's complicated!

Overall, I really did like this story. It was a good representation of the struggle of a faith crisis/transition.

This book did have a couple pretty graphic sex scenes, premarital sex, swearing, etc. I think the message would have been much better without all of that, and probably would be better received by those who are still in the LDS Church.

Thursday, June 29, 2023

The Family Next Door (Sally Hepworth)

Why I have this book: I like the author, so I bought the Kindle version last year. I actually ended up borrowing the audio version from the library, so I listened and just cross-referenced with the book when needed.

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. It totally kept me intrigued... in fact, I stayed up until 2:00 am and then forced myself to turn it off and go to sleep since I still had a couple hours left of listening time. I finished it today. I'm off to put more of her books on hold.

To be honest, the narrator wasn't my favorite, but it was fine. Also was a little confused when a child asked for a cookie, then they were called "biscuit" in the same scene. It's set in Australia, and I know a "biscuit" is what we call a cookie, but I was confused why it was used both ways in the same scene. Editing problem or do they use both words there in Australia? (I googled, and apparently they do use both words, although a cookie is usually softer and thicker than a biscuit, which sounds more like a shortbread-type cookie they'd serve with tea. Maybe?)

This is a book for grown-ups. You know people are having sex... it's talked about, but not described. There are grown-up themes (such as adultery) as well as swearing, including the F-word a couple of times.

Wednesday, June 28, 2023

Two Troublesome Books... haha (both by Kim Michele Richardson)

The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek

The Book Woman's Daughter

Why I have these books: I actually read the first one back in 2020, then reread it so I could follow up with the newer release about her daughter. This time I borrowed both as audio versions and also was lucky enough to borrow the ebooks, as well, so I could cross-reference if I missed something while listening.

Originally, I gave the first book five stars on Goodreads. I'm going to leave that, but if I had been reading it for the first time right now, I'd probably go with four stars. Maybe that's just audio version vs reading it myself? Maybe I am able to get lost in the story easier when I'm reading it instead of listening to someone else's voice inflections. This is a thought that throws into question all my star ratings since I listen to so many books now. Hmmm...

I gave the second book four stars on Goodreads. I liked it a lot, but it felt more like a story than a historical/humanity experience like the first one. Either way, they both were *thumbs up* from me.

There is some swearing, but I don't recall any of the "extra bad" swear words in either book. There are mild descriptions of the harshness of life for the time and place, abuse, sexual assault, murder, etc. Nothing is graphic.

Tuesday, June 20, 2023

With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God (Skye Jethani)

Why I have this book: I saw it recommended somewhere (I don't remember where), so I used an Audible credit to purchase the audio version.

First, I assumed the author was a woman with the name "Skye," but it turns out that he's a man. He's also some popular former pastor, speaker, podcast host, etc. in the Christian world.

I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. I liked the first bit about the different ways religions teach people to relate to God, and I related to some of that. For example, blessings from God are tied to your obedience or righteousness, which really causes (or is a result of) fear. We're afraid of bad things happening, so we think if we are righteous enough, God will bless us and protect us or give us miracles, etc. There were three other ways of having a relationship with God that he talks about in the book, and I could see how religions (or our own thoughts) have created those ways of seeing God's role in our lives.

He names these four "postures" as Under God, Over God, From God, and For God, and he describes how each one impacts how we relate to God or how we live our lives because of that relationship dynamic.

In the last part of the book, he talks about living "With God" instead, and describes what he means by that. I don't know... it kind of turned into a list of ideas that reminded me of the lists of do's I've always had within religion that just cause that same stress of "getting it right." I didn't love this part of the book. It felt more like the "expert" religious leader telling the rest of us how it should be. 

At the very end, he has some questions to help readers figure out how they relate to God, and I thought that was interesting and helpful.

Clean. The author did use the "N-word" several times while quoting racists. Seems to me you're not supposed to do that even if you're quoting another person.

Monday, June 19, 2023

This is How It Always Is (Laurie Frankel)

Why I have this book: I saw a lot of buzz about it online, plus recommendations by people I follow, so I borrowed the audio version from the online library.

I'm kind of torn on this. The book started out interesting, and I was feeling like it was going to be a four-star book. By the end, I dropped it to three stars, and honestly would have given it 2.5 stars if I had that option.

The only reason I'm giving it three stars is because it has potential to be enlightening for society in regards to trans children. I know I was hoping to gain understanding and more knowledge about this segment of the LGBTQ+ community. Sadly, I don't think this book delivered. I guess I did learn a bit about the choices that have to be made when it comes to trans children as they get close to puberty, and I appreciate better how difficult and complicated that is. I can see why there is so much debate about it. There's definitely not a simple solution. There is too much at stake for these kids to get it wrong. I don't envy anyone who has to decide the best thing to do for themselves, their children, or their patients.

But back to the book itself. So much of it felt unrealistic, especially towards the end of the book. The scene at the dance was completely unlikely. The dialogue between young kids is not at all normal or likely. The conversation between the mom and dad at the dance was so eye-rollingly ridiculous. I honestly don't know anyone who speaks like that. 

The dad and the therapist (?) guy the parents talked to on the phone were just a little too excited about Claude/Poppy's gender dysmorphia. I mean, even if one is accepting of their child, surely they'd see that it's really going to complicate their child's life. It will never be easy. So yes, be accepting and supportive and helpful, but to be excited about it seems a bit insensitive to the pain your child will likely suffer physically and/or emotionally throughout life.

And the fairy-tale that is interwoven with the story just added a layer of confusion for me. I didn't really get into that part at all and actually found it pretty boring.

I guess I don't think the book met my expectations. To be fair, maybe the author didn't intend to do anything but write a story that included a character with gender dysmorphia. Maybe I misinterpreted the intent of the author or made a bad assumption based on reviews I had read.

At the end of all of this, though, the story certainly got me thinking, and that's why it earned three stars.

There is some swearing, including the  F-word. There are a couple of sexual encounters, but none of it is described.

Ripples Outward (Karly Brannon)

Why I have this book: Someone in a FB group recommended it (her friend wrote it), so I bought it on Kindle.

I was a little surprised at how this book ended. The FB group is for women who are questioning or have left the LDS Church, so I assumed the author's experience of her mission would be leading her down a similar path.

Granted, the first part of her mission was pretty awful. Her companions were horrible to her. She calls it emotional abuse as she looks back on it, and I agree. I have a son who was emotionally abused early in his mission, as well. I know it's not uncommon in foreign missions. Her mission improved, and it appears she ended up feeling pretty happy about her time serving as a missionary.

The epilogue suggests she had lasting trauma from the emotional abuse she suffered, but didn't really indicate how it has impacted her relationship with the Church.

I feel like that's a lot of spoilers, but I do think anyone preparing to serve a mission would do well to read this book to get a more realistic view of what a mission is like. Returning missionaries tend to report on the "best two years" (or eighteen months) of their lives, setting up future missionaries to believe their struggles on the mission are unique and that something must be wrong with them.

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. 

Clean. 

Saturday, June 17, 2023

The Bookshop on the Corner (Jenny Colgan)

I read this book for the second time (this time on audio), and I've written my updated review in the original review from June 2020. 

Sunday, June 11, 2023

Golden Hills (Jennifer Weiner)

Why I have this book: It was one of Amazon Prime's "First Reads" book a month or two ago. I actually bought this one for $1.99 instead of getting it for free because I got a different book (or maybe two?) free that month.

This one is a short story, and I enjoyed it. It left one question unanswered, but otherwise it was a light and positive read. I gave it three stars on Goodreads because it wasn't anything amazing, but I did like it.

It was mostly clean. There was one F-word that I remember.

Saturday, June 10, 2023

This is How You Overcome Depression (Mathew Baker)

Why I have this book: I bought an ebook pack of three books by this author (and/or his brother) a few years ago.

I gave it three stars on Goodreads. While I do think it has good and helpful information, it was really difficult to stay engaged due to the writing style. I think it could have been way shorter (even though it's not that long of a book to begin with) and the info more easily organized.

Clean. I don't recall anything offensive.

Thursday, June 8, 2023

Beneath a Scarlet Sky (Mark T. Sullivan)

Why I have this book: I bought the Kindle edition years ago, and then my son gave me the audio version for Mother's Day this year.

I wanted to absolutely love this book. I've heard so many good things about it. But...

1) I read (when I was just about 1/3 of the way through) that there is some controversy about how much of the story is true. I've been burned before (Three Cups of Tea), so that skepticism kind of tainted the story for me.

2) The narrator was not very good at this job. The story is set in Italy during WWII, so it was jarring to hear him do the character's voices in a plain old American accent. He did German and Swedish characters' voices in their respective accents, so I'm not sure why he didn't do the same for the Italian voices. It made it harder to get completely sucked into the time and location.

3) The writing wasn't very good. It lacked depth and emotion. The author told the readers what people were feeling, but didn't write it in a way that we could experience what they were feeling because we were so invested. KWIM? It wasn't the kind of writing that sinks into one's soul.

Things I did like:

1) I learned some things about Italy in WWII that I didn't know before. It made me want to research more or read other books about Italy's role in the war.

2) It's always good to be reminded about the many people who sacrificed and were/are willing to risk their lives to save others or help the fight against evil.

3) The author did show the horrors of war. While I don't enjoy reading or hearing about the atrocities of war and evil, it's important to remember and honor those who suffer in our world. It helps expand our compassion and understanding for those who were or are victims of war.

4) I appreciated the author's notes at the end (which he titled "Aftermath") where he gave updates on what happened to the characters (who are real people) after the war. That was probably the best part of the book for me. 

5) If the story is completely true, I appreciate what Pino and others like him did to resist German occupation and to save the lives of Jews. If it's not completely true, then while I still appreciate what he and others did, I wish the author wouldn't have embellished it just to tell a story. It takes away from the credibility of the author, book, and characters.

There may have been some swearing, but I don't remember any F-words. There are some disturbing descriptions of war crimes. 

Thursday, June 1, 2023

When Mormons Doubt: A Way to Save Relationships and Seek a Quality Life

Why I have this book: I bought it on Kindle sometime in the last handful of months.

I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. I think it could have been shorter and more concise, but it did give some good advice to consider.

Interestingly, I couldn't tell if the author is an active member of the LDS Church or not. He seemed to have a good understanding of the issues that cause members of the Church to doubt or stop believing. He also recognizes why people believe and want to stay in the Church. I'm sure a little more reading or a bit of research would let me know if he's an active or believing member, but it doesn't really matter to me.

I like that he sees how we can be blinded by loyalty to our own beliefs and thus can't always see that there may be truth in someone else's experiences and beliefs, as well.

The gist of the book is that there are a lot of things in this world that can bring joy and unity, not just believing in the same religion (or political party, for that matter). Relationships and a quality life can be built on those things, which fall under the "categories" of truth, beauty, and goodness. He actually goes into this topic much deeper than a surface level, and it gave me a lot to think about. I liked that his ideas require a more deliberate, engaged way of living.

Clean.

Tuesday, May 30, 2023

Round Robin (Jennifer Chiaverini)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library. I purchased and read the print version years ago.

I still really like these books. I don't know what else to say other than it's going to be difficult to pass my print versions on, but I do need to release all my books into the world for others to enjoy (and to simplify my house).

I gave it four stars on Goodreads.

I don't recall any swearing or anything else offensive. It's possible there was a mild swear word or two, but I just don't remember any.

Monday, May 22, 2023

The Soulmate (Sally Hepworth)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library because I've enjoyed other books by the author. I actually recommended this one to the library, and was put on the waitlist the minute they purchased it. :)

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. I actually listened to it all in one day since I had a quilt to bind, and it kept me engaged in both the book and the binding. I was kept intrigued to the very end, and had no idea which way it would go until it happened. Sally Hepworth has an amazingly creative mind for stories.

The book contained the F-word and other swear words. Sexual things happen, but it's not descriptive. Suicide is a key part of the story. There are some violent/criminal activities that happens, but they are also not descriptive.

Friday, May 19, 2023

A Court of Silver Flames (Sarah J. Maas)

Why I have this book: It's the last book in the series I've mentioned before.

I didn't finish this one. I'm not sure how far into the book I got. Since it's a five book series, it shows me at  82%, but that's 82% of all five books. I'm on page 2404 of 2924 pages... this last book is LONG. It's something like 750+ pages. Looks like I'm over 200 pages in to this book, and I've completely lost interest.

First, not only is sex a theme between the two main characters, we also get to find out that they both would rather masturbate than give in to their passion. Yeah, I don't need to know that.

I read a summary on some website just to see what all happens with the rest of the story, and even that wasn't interesting to me. It was getting too complicated in the fairy realm for my taste. I marked it as "did not finish" on Goodreads, marked it as "read" on my Kindle, and am moving on.

Even with not finishing the book, I can confirm that there's more of the same: swearing (I'm sure that includes the F-word), sex, and the added element of masturbation. Way too much of all of this to wade through for a storyline that's not worth it for me.

Flying Solo (Linda Holmes)

Why I have this book: A friend recommended it to me, so I borrowed the audio version from the online library.

I enjoyed this book quite a bit. I was all on track to give it four stars, but I didn't like the ending. It felt like the protagonist had kind of a selfish outlook on relationships, and her boyfriend just kinda went along with it. I mean, it's great that she's independent, but it felt a little one-sided that she got to determine the way their relationship played out. At the end of the day, I could only give it three stars because of that. I might have gone with 3.5 if that had been an option.

I did like it well enough to put her first book on my list of books-to-be-read. I hope the narrator is as good as the one who read this book.

There are some F-words in this book, maybe some other swear words, as well. An unmarried couple sleeps together, but it's not super descriptive.

Tuesday, May 16, 2023

The Quilter's Apprentice (Jennifer Chiaverini)

Why I have this book: I have owned the print edition for many years... in fact, I own most of the books in the series, and I have reviewed some of them before. Anyway, I decided to listen to the audio versions because I really do want to get rid of books, but I was undecided on getting rid of these ones.

I like this book a lot. It brings such a cozy feeling for me. I actually really got into quilting because of these books, so there's a bit of nostalgia for me, too.

I put the second book on hold and look forward to listening to all the books in the series. I don't think I finished the whole series back in the day, so some of them will be new to me.

I gave this four stars on Goodreads.

Clean. There may have been a swear word or two, but I honestly don't remember.

Wednesday, May 3, 2023

A Place to Hang the Moon (Kate Albus)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it, so I borrowed it from Audible (didn't even know that was possible).

Such a great story! The narrator was fantastic, the storyline was sweet and fun, and it was just an all-around cozy and feel-good listen.

One reviewer on Amazon made the point that some of the words were American instead of British (for example, "diaper" instead of "nappy"), but even so, she gave it a stellar rating and review. I'm not sure I would have noticed had I not read that review first (surprisingly, since I usually catch those things) because I was so engrossed in the story. Even though it had that small (in my opinion) imperfection, I still gave it five stars on Goodreads. I loved it, and I'm hoping my daughter will read or listen to it.

Oh, and I just thought of another issue... my friend pointed this out to me. On the "cover" of the audio version, the artist portrayed Edmund as being younger than his sister Anna. In reality, Edmund is older. I'm not sure how that got past the editors, but it did. They really should fix it because if a listener saw the cover, they'd have the wrong idea in their heads as they begin the story and will be all sorts of confused about their ages.

Clean. There is the use of a couple of derogatory terms from WWII era in describing wartime evacuees and Germans.

Sunday, April 30, 2023

The Overdue Life of Amy Byler (Kelly Harms)

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from Prime Reading, and then later my friend recommended it, so I was glad I had it.

I really liked this book. I was surprised to see that it didn't have great reviews on Amazon after I read it, but maybe it depended on if you could relate to the protagonist's feelings about motherhood or not.

There were a few things that were kinda weird... like how she would often say something like, "Say what now?" What adult says that in this day and age? Maybe it's a Pennsylvania thing?

And I don't understand sleeping with a guy on the first date. Do people really do that? 

I enjoyed the banter between friends... I chuckled a few times reading their text messages. And I loved how they came together to support Amy. I'd have to assume she'd do the same for them.

It probably wasn't the best written book ever, but I was drawn in and was easily able to feel the emotions experienced by the main character... especially the difficult ones. I gave it four stars on Goodreads.

Adult sex is happening... but it's not descriptive. There's an implication of a teenager considering sexual experiences, but she seems to be pretty level-headed about those choices. There's some swearing... I can't remember if the F-word is involved.

Saturday, April 29, 2023

Unfollow: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving Extremism (Megan Phelps-Roper)

It sounds like this book has had a few title tweaks since it was published. The subtitle that came up on Goodreads was A Journey from Hatred to Hope. 

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from the ebook library because I've been in a bit of a study of people who leave high-demand religions.

I gave this one four stars on Goodreads. Again, it's interesting to see how similar all these high-demand religions are... pressure, guilt, control, the declaration that they are the only ones with the truth, etc. The Westboro Baptist Church (which this book is about) is probably one of the most extreme I've read about so far, at least as far as how they treat others and the lack of caring and love shown to people in tragic situations. It's amazing that none of the members/followers in this church could see how awful their behavior was. It's possible some did/do see, but were or are too afraid to do anything about it since they know how they'll be treated.

I learned a lot about this church that I didn't know before. The author is the granddaughter of the founder of the church, so it was a definite "insider" look. I hope she and others who have left this religion behind will enjoy happy and peaceful lives as they move forward. I gave it four stars on Goodreads.

Mostly clean. There were a handful of swear words, including the F-word.


Wednesday, April 26, 2023

The Lies I Tell (Julie Clark)

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from the ebook library after seeing someone recommend it online.

I gave this one three stars on Goodreads. It was pretty intriguing, but it was also easy for me to put it down and not pick it up again for a few days. I liked it overall, although I probably won't think about it again, so...

Mostly clean. There was an occasional swear word (although I only noted one), and I don't think there were any F-words, but I can't be completely sure. It took me so long to read that I don't remember. There is one date rape (not descriptive).

Thursday, April 20, 2023

A Court of Frost and Starlight (Sarah J. Maas)

Why I have this book: It's part of the 5 book series I've been reading.

To be honest, I read this book a while ago and forgot to record it here and on Goodreads. I had to go look up what it was about because I couldn't remember. Oops. 

I gave it three stars just now on Goodreads (recording the guess that I finished it around April 20 even though I'm technically writing this on May 19 and will backdate the post). It was fine. If I'm remembering correctly, it was pretty light... no wars or torture or anything. It was fine.

I'm sure there were swear words, probably including the F-word. I'm guessing there was sex since the author seems to like writing about that.

Sunday, April 16, 2023

Becoming Free Indeed: My Story of Disentangling Faith from Fear (Jinger Duggar Vuolo)

Why I have this book: I borrowed the audio version from the ebook library because I wanted to hear about how and why Jinger left her family's high-demand religion.

First, I've never watched the reality show about the Duggars. I maybe saw one or two episodes, but I'm not even sure if that happened. 

Second, since I never watched the show, I thought her name was pronounced like ringer, singer, finger, zinger. I guess it's pronounced like "Ginger." So that was something I learned. Haha...

I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. It was super interesting to hear how much her family's religion was similar to other high-demand religions in that it creates feelings of guilt, pressure, judgement of others, feeling like one is never quite good enough, fear, etc.

I'm feeling more and more that all high-demand religions are the same.

One thing I didn't like was how she is now preaching her form of religion and her beliefs as the only truth... kind of doing the same thing the leader of her old church did, but maybe without the same level of pressure and control.

I'm glad I listened to it, but it didn't lead to any "ah-ha!" moments for me as I continue to work through my own beliefs.

Clean.

Friday, April 14, 2023

Brain Lock: Free Yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior (Jeffrey M. Schwartz)

Why I have this book: I bought the print edition years ago after seeing the author on Oprah Winfrey, then listened to the audio version recently.

I saw some people online say that they didn't like the audio version because they didn't like the author's voice, but I actually liked it. He had an accent... maybe New York? I thought he did a good job.

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. It's possible the information is a little outdated, but I'm not sure. It's an older book (although this is a 20th Anniversary edition), and the more current "experts" don't seem to use the same philosophies in some ways. Still, maybe his method is helpful for some sufferers of OCD if the current methods don't help. They do seem to have the same foundation, which actually probably started with Dr. Schwartz and his team.

I can't think of anything inappropriate in this book. There may have been swearing if he was quoting someone else, but if there was, it was mild and rare.


Thursday, April 13, 2023

A Court of Wings and Ruin (Sarah J. Maas)

Why I have this book: It's the third in the series that I'm reading. (See previous posts)

I actually gave this one four stars. Since I read it directly after the previous one, I can't be entirely sure, but I think there were fewer sexual scenes, and I don't think they were as descriptive. Still could have been left out entirely, but I was glad for the improvement.

The story stands on its own. It doesn't need sex scenes to draw in a bigger crowd of readers.

Anyway, I liked this one. The personalities and humanity were a bigger part of the story. We saw heroic acts and complicated emotions. There were some heart-stopping moments as the war came to its climactic moments. Definitely kept my attention.

I still can't call it "clean." There is still profanity and some sexual content, and this book had quite a bit of war violence/killing.

Tuesday, April 4, 2023

A Court of Mist and Fury (Sarah J. Maas)

Why I have this book: It's the second in a five-book series that I purchased for Kindle after seeing a lot of good reviews.

Okay... I gave the first book four stars, and if I were reviewing simply the story and writing, I'd have given this book four stars, as well. I'm really not into the fantasy genre, but I have enjoyed these books and the storyline, and the author really does write well. It all flows easily. I'm trying something different for me (genre-wise) and liking it more than I thought I would.

BUT... I really wish the author would not use so much profanity (although it's not as bad as other books I've read, I just feel like it doesn't fit the setting and so seems unnecessary) and I don't want the descriptions of the sexual encounters. I feel like this book is more descriptive and crude than the first book in the series. Again, it's not necessary! It can just be implied instead!

So... I gave it three stars instead of four. I will finish the series just because I bought them all, but I'll be more careful in the future about investing in a whole series at one time. I probably won't read anything else by this author just because I do still prefer other genres, and I also don't think the story itself is worth wading through the profanity and sex.

In the past, I would have stopped reading just because of the sex scenes due to religious standards. It's kind of nice to be able to look at this situation and say, "I'm an adult. I can decided what I like or don't like and determine for myself what I want to read." I've learned that I don't like this kind of sexual content, but I can also finish the books without feeling like I'm disappointing God. 

Kind of a tangent there. Haha...

Descriptive sex scenes, profanity, violence. 

Monday, March 27, 2023

You are Not Alone: The NAMI Guide to Navigating Mental Health (Ken Duckworth)

Why I have this book: I saw it online somewhere, so I used an Audible credit to purchase it.

Even though this book wasn't at all what I expected, I gave it five stars on Goodreads.

I'm not sure why, but I thought it was going to be a collection of thoughts or essays by people suffering from mental illness. While there were many stories like that, the book is more of a guide to seeking mental health services and support. (And if I had read the full title, I might have realized that sooner!)

It's a valuable resource for people and families who deal with (especially severe) mental health issues. I will be recommending it to someone I know who could have used it in the last year. I'm glad I read it because I now have a way to help people who don't know what to do in a mental health crisis. Now I have a resource.

Clean. Suicide and suicide ideation is discussed.

Thursday, March 16, 2023

The Accidental Beauty Queen (Teri Wilson)

Why I have this book: A friend recommended it, so I borrowed it from the ebook library.

I really enjoyed this book for a light, mindless, fun read. It was easy to get sucked into this romcom story.

Maybe it was a little predictable, and I'd also say the ending could have played out a little more realistically (nobody falls in love in just a few days... that would be called "infatuation"), but it was a happy and lighthearted escape.

I gave it three stars on Goodreads. It would have been four stars if I was simply going off of the enjoyment of the experience, but there could have been a bit more character development (great for the protagonist, not as much for the other characters) and depth. I'm just not sure it was meant to be that kind of book, though. 

I don't recall any swearing? If there was, I think it was mild and infrequent. There is some premarital sex implied, but it happens "off camera," so to speak. You only know because it's mentioned, and there's no description of the event.

Tuesday, March 14, 2023

A Court of Thorn and Roses (Sarah J. Maas)

Why I have this book: I saw it recommended many times online, so I decided to use some bonus Kindle points to buy the five-book series.

Okay... where to start? I gave this book four stars on Goodreads even though I don't know if I could recommend it to very many people.

I'm happy I liked it so much because I'm generally not into "fantasy" books... this one has faeries and associated otherworldly creatures, and the romance is between a human and a faerie. Not usually my thing at all. She made it work, though... you see the faeries (at least the main character fairies) as human-like, so it's not a Tinkerbell kind of thing.

I liked the tone of the writing, and I felt that the character development was good... although I do have to say that I thought it was better on two other male characters than on the main male love interest. I actually came to like the "bad guy" better by the end. He had more depth and was more interesting than the "good guy," although I guess the fact that he did some pretty nasty things would make it difficult to actually love and trust him.

I'm looking forward to reading the other books in the series.

Can't classify this as clean. There was some profanity (but not as much as many contemporary books or movies). There was also some violence, along the lines of "Lord of the Rings" medieval-type torturing and killing. It was a bit "spicy," (as they are calling it these days) but not crude and crass like some modern smut books are, and it wasn't the focus of the story.





Friday, March 10, 2023

Room (Emma Donoghue)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it, so I borrowed the audio version and the ebook version from the online library. (They were both available.)

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. The story is narrated by the five-year-old boy in the story, so that was interesting in the audio version. They also had other narrators for multiple characters, so that was interesting, as well. I actually enjoyed reading it better than listening, but I did use both versions.

I was able to easily get engrossed in the story, and I felt like I could understand the perspectives of all the characters (except "Old Nick," but it would be troubling to be able to relate to him). The author did a great job with the writing and character development. The relationship of mother and son is beautiful and complicated.

It was interesting to discover that she wrote the book The Wonder. We watched the movie a few months ago, and I had no idea it was based on a book. Very different story and setting than Room.

This book is about a young woman who was abducted and held captive for seven (?) years. She is repeatedly raped during that time, but it's not described. There is the implication that she was at times also physically abused. I don't remember if there's any swearing. If there was, it was infrequent. At one point, an abortion is mentioned, but you don't hear anything else about it.

Wednesday, March 8, 2023

From the Embers (Aly Martinez)

Why I have this book: I saw it recommended online, so I bought it on a day I got double points for the Kindle Rewards program or something.

Anyway... I was really torn on how many stars to give this book. On the one hand, the author is a good writer. The story flowed well, it was easy to like the main characters, there was more depth than a typical "smut book," and I didn't see what was coming.

Haha... I didn't know it was a smut book when I bought it, but yeah. Definitely more detail than I am used to in my reading habits. I can do without all that, and I can do without the bad language especially in regards to the "love scenes."

Overall, I enjoyed the story, so I did give it three stars. I don't think I'll read anything else of hers, though, because I just didn't need all the extra details and language.

Not clean. (See above.) Also deals with death, adultery, and unmarried sex.

Tuesday, March 7, 2023

But Jesus: A Conversation (Autumn McAlpin)

Why I have this book: I saw it on IG and it looked good, so I bought it on Kindle.

There was one major typo (I notified the author because it was something that could detract from the message of the book, and she kindly responded that she was going to get in touch with her publisher about it), and there was a downloading problem with it, as well. Not sure what that's about... I was able to read it on my Kindle app but not my Kindle device.

Otherwise, I really loved this book. I gave it five stars on Goodreads. I wish every person would read it... not just members of the LDS Church (although certainly each member). It's a message that is needed in our world.

Clean.

Monday, March 6, 2023

Jonathan Livingston Seagull (Richard Bach)

Why I have this book: My son-in-law recommended it to me, so I bought it on Kindle. 

I liked Part One of the story. I was thinking I'd give it four stars as I finished that section. It kinda went downhill from there, though, and I ended up giving it two stars. It felt a little "out there" as it went on. I didn't really understand what was happening. Haha...

As I write this, I'm waiting for my SiL to respond to my Polo about his thoughts on the book so I can see why he liked it so much.

Clean.

Sunday, March 5, 2023

Baring Witness: 36 Mormon Women Talk Candidly about Love, Sex, and Marriage (Holly Welker)

Why I have this book: I saw it recommended on Amazon, so I borrowed it from the ebook library.

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. It was interesting to hear thirty-six perspectives on how Mormonism played into the marriages of the contributors to this book.

The intro was very long and kind of boring for me, but the majority of the stories were engaging. Some of the women who contributed their stories were still members of the LDS Church, some had left. Some married in the temple, some didn't (for various reasons). Some are still married, some are remarried, some are divorced, one or two were widowed. 

What I found so fascinating was seeing how some women were super influenced by their religious upbringing in how they assumed their roles as wives and mothers. Other women bucked the system and lived outside of traditional roles in their marriages. This was true, as well, in the years of dating or in deciding when or whom to marry. Some were stronger in facing their challenges because of their religious beliefs, and others found strength when they left those beliefs behind. I could relate to some more than others, and sometimes it was difficult to see in writing the feelings I had as a Mormon wife and mom.

Clean. I don't remember if there was any swearing. Some women did talk about their sex lives as it related to their marriage, but it wasn't graphic.


Saturday, March 4, 2023

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine (Gail Honeyman)

Why I have this book: I kept seeing it recommended online, so I finally borrowed the audio version from the online library.

I really, really liked this book. I wanted to give it five stars on Goodreads, but I'm trying to reserve five stars for the most life-changing books. Haha... I'm not really sure how to determine what gets five stars, but this one was so darn close. I'd give it 4.7 if I could, but I guess I'm sticking with four.

Oh, shoot. I think I'll just give it five stars. I'm going to round up.

Maybe I would feel like it's four stars if I had read the book, but the audio version was excellent. The narrator did a great job. It was so easy to slip into the setting, and she managed the male voices perfectly. I was super impressed.

Such a sweet, fun, sad, and happy book.

There were a handful of F-words and plenty of mild swear words. Drinking, child abuse, child death, domestic violence, and a little bit of sexual content (nothing graphic or even actually happening in the book... it's more in memory or in a character thinking about it). It sounds pretty depressing, but the overall tone of the book is light and happy somehow.

Wednesday, March 1, 2023

Greenlights (Matthew McConaughey)

Why I have this book: I had a couple people recommend the audio version, so I used an Audible credit to purchase it.

I gave this audio book four stars on Goodreads. Matthew is an amazing storyteller, and he does an excellent job in the narration. I have to wonder if it's all true because it does seem too crazy to be believable at times.

It's weird to me that he had the type of childhood he did. It sounds more like Tom Sawyer times than the 70's and 80's as far as the adventures he had. Is it a Texas thing? It's nothing like my childhood even though we're in the same generation.

It was an entertaining (almost) seven hours. 

Like most people in the world now, Matthew uses a lot of F-words and other profanity. He talks about masturbation like it's not a private thing, and he mentions wet dreams a few times. So yeah, not so clean, but in some weird way, he gets away with it. Haha...



Sunday, February 26, 2023

Thriving in Relationships When You Have OCD: How to Keep Obsessions and Compulsions from Sabotaging Love, Friendship, and Family Connections (Amy Mariaskin)

Why I have this book: I bought the Audible version (well, I used a credit) after seeing it recommended by someone I follow on IG.

I gave this book five stars on Goodreads. If I had a choice of using decimals, I'd have gone with a 4.6 or so, but I rounded up since whole stars are the only option.

The narrator did a great job, and the tone of the book was positive and hopeful. There were lots of good suggestions and things to think about. There is access to worksheets and such to help implement the ideas the author recommends.

Clean. There is one section on sexuality, but obviously it is clinical in nature.

Saturday, February 25, 2023

Confessions of a Prairie B*tch: How I Survived Nellie Oleson and Learned to Love Being Hated (Alison Arngrim)

Why I have this book: I've seen it now and again online, so finally borrowed it from the ebook library in the audio version. I'm a child of the 70's, so I definitely grew up with the Little House on the Prairie series.

I liked this book quite a bit. Alison Arngrim narrated the audio book, and she did a great job. It was fun to hear "Nellie" in her voice, and I also heard a bit of Carol Brunette's intonations, as well.

Alison had quite an upbrining. Her parents' stories are fascinating, too, and her childhood was not conventional at all. Sadly, she was also physically and sexually abused by her older brother for years, so that was a shocking and rough part of the life to hear, but I appreciated how she ended up handling that both as a child and later, as an adult. She sounds like a courageous and strong woman.

It was also fun to hear about her years on the Little House series, and I enjoyed learning about the actors who played all those familiar characters. Some of it was quite surprising!

I'm glad I listened to this book. I think it expanded my world.

There's quite a bit of swearing in the book, including the worst of the words. She talks about sexual assault and drug use and other difficult subjects, but overall she seems to have a positive and happy outlook on life.


Friday, February 24, 2023

The Still Small Voice (Brenda Stanley)

Why I have this book: My friend loved it (it was written by an old high school classmate of hers), so I bought it on Kindle.

Sadly, I only gave this two stars on Goodreads. The story itself had a lot of potential, but there was way too much foreshadowing that left too many questions for too long. The book needed some serious editing since the author would write about an action ("so and so gathered her tote bag") followed a page later with something like "she found her tote bag." Did she lose it since the moment she gathered it a few paragraphs ago? There were several instances like that.

The book also left a few unanswered questions that made it a bit unsatisfying. I don't know, overall it wasn't that great of a read for me.

I do give the author credit for keeping one detail a big secret throughout the book even though she didn't obviously go out of her way to hide it. That was clever and impressive!

Clean, but be aware that the storyline dealt with death, suicide, sexuality, and religious trauma.

Tuesday, February 21, 2023

Atomic Habits (James Clear)

Subtitle: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

Why I have this book: I saw lots of talk about it online, so used an Audible credit to get it. 

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. Lots of good ideas and tips. The problem is you can't just read the book. You actually have to take action. Haha...

Clean.

Monday, February 13, 2023

Do I Stay Christian? A Guide for the Doubters, the Disappointed, and the Disillustioned (Brian D. McLaren)

Why I have this book: My daughter and son-in-law gave the book to us for Christmas, and I ended up using a credit on Audible to get the audio version, too.

I was going to give this four stars during Parts One and Two, but dropped it to a three after finishing the book. The book wasn't what I expected... I thought it would be more about Christ (you know... Christian), but it was about the Christian religion, whether Catholic, Evangelical, etc. He talked about the problems of the history and current issues within the Christian religion. He talked about why people might want to distance themselves from Christianity (Part One) or why they might want to stay (Part Two).

I thought both of those sections were very interesting and relatable. Part Three bored me to tears (I don't even remember what the point was), and the section where he told listeners how to get the most of the book was kinda silly and annoying for me. I mean, he had some good ideas if that's what you're looking for, so maybe it's because I just wanted the book to be done.

The author is or was a pastor, but his view and belief in Christianity isn't traditional at all. He is obviously liberal-minded and progressive. Very nuanced. I'm not saying I disagree with all his points, but he did get a little too political for me in parts.

Anyway, I'm glad I listened to it. It gave me things to think about in regards to the history of Christianity and how the hierarchy of the "church" (any of them) can be problematic. I just don't understand why anyone wants to stay "active" in any church if they feel they have to change it to make it work for them. Just worship on your own. (But I'm an introvert, so I understand I don't need that "community" like some people might.)

Clean. I don't remember anything offensive other than some might be offended by his views on religion and Christianity. 

Thursday, February 9, 2023

Boys Adrift: The Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men (Leonard Sax)

Why I have this book: My oldest son (who is a high school teacher and basketball coach) recommended this to me. Since I have still have one boy left to raise, I bought the audio version.

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. It had lots of good information and research results on the things that might be contributing to some difficult trends for all children/adolescents/adults. The focus of this book, though, was boys and younger adult men (like mid-thirties and younger).

I was happy to see that I have done a lot of things that he recommends, and I see some things I need to do better. Those things aren't new ideas to me... I just have let things slide because I'm tired of fighting the battles all the time. Decades of doing that and having people be mad or judge me or roll their eyes wore me out! But I want my last two kids to have as much success as my older kids have had, so back to the battlefield of being the mean mom. 

Clean. The author does talk about negative behavior of young men and women (porn, masturbation, sex, drugs, etc.), but it's all as a clinical report, not a descriptive or glorified action.


Wednesday, February 8, 2023

Spare (Prince Harry)

Why I have this book: I borrowed it from the ebook library so I could judge for myself if what the tabloids were saying was true.

To be fair, it's reported that Harry had a ghostwriter named JR Moehringer, although his name isn't listed as author. I could only find his name in the "Acknowledgements" at the back of the book. I honestly don't know what role the ghostwriter played in the creation of this memoir. How much of the style of writing belonged to him and how much belonged to Harry? Either way, it was written in a lovely, flowing style that I enjoyed reading.

It was interesting to get a solid peek into the family. homes, and traditions of the British royal family. I loved reading about Harry's childhood and the things that stood out to him as core memories. He was insightfully honest about the perspective he had on his upbringing, his relationships within his family, and the loss of his mother at age 12. He shared the good, the bad, and the ugly of his choices and the paths he took throughout his life. 

The book was dedicated to his wife, his children, and his mother Diana.

He listed a lot of people in the Acknowledgements, including those who helped him with the book, his wife and children, his mother-in-law, his mother's siblings, and some of his mates. There was absolutely no acknowledgement of any member of the royal family. I skimmed through it twice to make sure I didn't miss it, but I didn't see them listed at all. I thought maybe - if nobody else - he'd list his grandmother Queen Elizabeth, with whom he seemed to have a special relationship.

Overall, I believe his story. I've seen the family as dysfunctional for years, so no surprise there. Having read the book myself, I see that the British press reporters have twisted and made a much bigger meaning of his words than I think he intended. That shows me that his feelings toward the press are justified.

I'm disgusted by the way members of his family have treated him. Why the British people continue to support royalty is beyond my understanding. There isn't much to admire there now that the Queen is gone. And frankly, I don't know enough about her to know if she was admirable, either. Other than staying on the throne for so long, I don't know much of her character. Her family isn't a testament to a good family environment, though, so something was amiss. (I know, that sounds harsh, but there's plenty of evidence outside of this book to support that opinion.)

I hope that Meghan is worthy of the complete devotion he has for her, and I hope she truly loves him. He needs someone he can count on in his corner.

I say, "Good for him." The royal family is a mess. They have been for years. Maybe he can break the cycle for his children.

Mostly clean. He does talk about some of his personal experiences with drugs, sex (not descriptive), war, etc. He uses some profanity, including the F-word. It's not at all as frequent as in other memoirs I've recently read, but there are a few instances.

Tuesday, February 7, 2023

Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind (Yuval Noah Harari)

Why I have this book: My sister-in-law was listening to it and recommended it to me and my husband, so we got the audio version.

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. It was very fascinating to hear about the progression of humankind from the evolution viewpoint up through modern times (2014 when the edition of the book we listened to was published).

I'm not sure how the book made me feel. Are Homo sapiens just as random a species as any other? Is there no purpose to life and our existence? Is there really no better plan than just evolution and "progress" and maybe an eventual self-destruction of humankind? 

From a religious standpoint, of course, there is way more purpose than the book proposes. However, the things the author talked about regarding religion make total sense, as well.

I'd say I learned a lot about more modern history, but it was also interesting to hear about the theories of earlier life and the evolution of life on Earth. It gave me a lot to think about.

Clean. I don't recall any swearing. There was talk of mating and biological urges, wars and other killings, etc. All very scientific.


Wednesday, January 25, 2023

Wake Her Up (Marcella Hill)

Why I have this book: I think Amazon recommended it to me... but after I bought it, the author actually posted about it on a FB group of which we both are members. That was kind of a surprise to me, and it made me more excited to read it.

I gave this book three stars on Goodreads. I really liked some parts and highlighted quite a few of her thoughts. The writing could have used a bit of editing, and overall I didn't relate much to her lifestyle or interests, but some of her ideas were noteworthy.

I think it was clean. There may have been a swear word or two, but I'm writing this at least a couple of weeks after I finished it (and am backdating it), so I don't remember.

Sunday, January 15, 2023

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo (Taylor Jenkins Reid)

*** Might have too many spoilers. *** 


Why I have this book: I kept seeing it online as being super amazing, and a friend rated it five stars on Goodreads, so I borrowed it from the ebook library.

Argh. Okay. So many conflicting feelings about this book.

The storyline kept me interested because the author planted the seed of something big coming up... and it was a great plot twist, no doubt. Other reviewers felt like it was predictable, but I didn't really see it coming... at least, not like that. (The great reveal was also one of the least believable parts of the story. I just don't see anyone getting away with that. Seems a simple investigation would have shined a lot of doubt on what appeared to have happened. Plus too many people (doctors, police, coroner, etc.) would have had to be involved in the coverup.)

One complaint many reviewers had was that there was no indication that this was really an LGBTQ+ love story. Why would we assume so with the title the book has? I wasn't bothered by the love story itself, but I didn't find it believable or compelling. As I've thought about it, I think that has more to do with the poor character development than the fact that they were in a lesbian relationship.

I really didn't get invested in any of the characters except maybe one: Harry. He was the most likable character in the book, and he was the one I was rooting for the most. Even though he was a side character, he was the most believable and the one who invoked the most compassion in me. When I finished the book, I honestly wasn't that moved in general... and I figured out that it's because there wasn't that much depth to the other characters or their relationships.

And the main character (Evelyn) comes across as so cold and selfish in general. Maybe that's why the love story isn't believable. She switches from being pretty unemotional to having this great passion for her "one true love" even though she's never attracted to any other woman. Calling her "bisexual" just doesn't feel realistic. I also didn't see the reason for their amazing attraction. Again, there's not much depth to the characters or their love story.

It did make me wonder how much of what was portrayed in the book does go on in Hollywood. All the game-playing, the using of people, etc. I mean, we all know it happens, but is it that blatant within the inner circles?

The writing is pretty good. I did enjoy it enough to stick through it, but at the end, it left me feeling indifferent and kind of annoyed.

There is some profanity, including the F-word. Obviously deals with all kinds of sexual relationships, and it does have some descriptive love scenes, although not as graphic as it could be. It was more than I wanted to read, though. It also deals with death and suicide.


Monday, January 9, 2023

May B. (Caroline Starr Rose)

Why I have this book: My friend recommended it, so I borrowed it from the ebook library. It was available to borrow right away and was a quick read, so that was nice.

I gave this book four stars on Goodreads. I probably would have gone for about 3.75 if that were an option, but I rounded up. 

The story tells a whole lot with relatively few words. It kept my interest even though I'd guess it's written for mid to upper elementary students.

Clean. There is a death that occurs, but it's mentioned briefly and isn't the focus of the story.